Relationships
Thinking About Relationships
Deciding to be close with someone is a big step. Ask yourself: Are you emotionally ready? Do you feel safe? Are you able to talk openly about your boundaries and what matters to you?
If you’re thinking about having sex, it’s a good idea to learn how to protect your health and make informed decisions.
Communication
Communication is more than just texts and phone calls. Good communication means being open about your concerns and respecting each other's feelings, choices, and desires.
In some relationships, that might include talking about personal health, like getting tested for infections. Being honest helps build trust and respect.
Talking STI Testing with your partner(s)
Talking to your partners about STI testing and your results is important. It helps you trust each other, make safe choices, and avoid spreading infections. It's also good for talking openly and having a strong relationship if you're in one.
Tips for opening the conversation about STI testing with your partner(s)
Tips on how to have a healthy and open conversation about your STI results:
Consent
Even if you’ve been with someone before, it’s important to make sure both of you are fully comfortable every time.
You always have the right to say yes—or no.
What is true consent?
Respect
If you have a partner who harms you physically, emotionally, or sexually or tries to control you, get help.
When should I get help?
If you think you are in an abusive or unhealthy relationship.
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Dating Matters: 410-396-2206
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Baltimore City's 24-Hour Partner Violence Hotline: (410) 889-7884
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The National Domestic Violence Hotline: 1-800-799-7233
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TurnAround, Inc. 24-Hour Helpline: (443) 279-0379
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House of Ruth Baltimore: (410) 889-0840
If you think you have been coerced into sex.
Huffington Post Article: "Coercion Vs. Consent: It’s Never Too Late To Say No To Sex (Trust Your Gut)"
If you need mental health counseling for any reason.
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Crisis, Referral & Information Hotline: (410) 433-5175
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Renewal Counseling Center: (410) 529-2151
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The Family Tree: (410) 889-2300
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Behavioral Health System Baltimore:
(410) 637-1900
If you, or someone you know, has a problem with alcohol or other substances.
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Crisis, Referral & Information Hotline: (410) 433-5175
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Behavioral Health System Baltimore:
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Maryland Drug Abuse Treatment Programs: 1-888-744-0069
If you, or a partner, have an unplanned pregnancy.
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Maryland Planned Parenthood: (410) 576-1414
Clinics where everyone can feel safe and respected.
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Star Trak: (410) 706-6000
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Chase Brexton: (410) 837-2050